Category: Better Relationships

Introducing The Advice Column


The Advice Column

Among the many themes readers requested during the past few weeks when I solicited for blog topics, there was one theme that was all-inclusive.

What readers want more than anything – is advice.  Each week, I receive a number of questions.  Most of the time I provide these answers specifically to the inquirer, but it appears much more helpful to put these answers here, so you can benefit from them too.

The first question launches later on this week.

In the meantime, I’d like to introduce my latest membership program, Smart Goals Society.


Work Smart, Not Hard

Smart Goals Society is a group of aspiring inspirers who are looking to make leaps and bounds in their personal and professional lives.  Although we work hard, a little strategy never hurt.  The purpose of Smart Goals Society is to do exactly that, achieve goals in a smart way.

Let’s talk Results for a second.

My client, C just found her life partner and true love… she is even planning her wedding for next year after entirely giving up on the possibility…

My long-term client, M just increased her career profitability by 650% … with zero prior  marketing experience of any kind…

My client, T just released her first book which quadrupled her business, number of clients and professional contacts within a few short weeks…

The list goes on and on.  You can read about the other results of my clients here.


The only question you need to ask yourself is, “Do I want to hit my goals before the end of 2016?”

If the answer is YES, I would love to help you get these kinds of results, and I’d like to help you do it in an AFFORDABLE and POWERFUL way.


Yes – Membership for the Smart Goals Society and all the perks listed below – is only $17 per month.


Here’s how it works…

Right Now, You’re Probably Stuck on One of These 3 Things…

You want to STOP spinning your wheels, letting self doubt, procrastination and other things hold you back from forming awesome relationships and finding true love.


You want to get more visibility for your business. The RIGHT people, who are thrilled to work with you, who understand your value, and who see you as a leader in your industry…


You want communicate your products and services in a way that is more valuable so it’s 100% dependable and predictable…

Which of those sounds more like you?


The good news is that whichever it is, I can craft a plan to help you make it a reality… These are the kinds of results I get for my clients every single day. If I can do it for them, I can do it for you.  I have resources available to you, the moment you become a member.


Here’s what to do next:

Click and Join the SMART GOALS SOCIETY


WARNING – TIME IS A FACTOR. There are limited spaces!

It’s physically impossible for me to work with more than a handful of people, so this is FIRST COME, FIRST SERVED


Here are Additional Membership Perks:

• Exclusive Invitation to an Online, Facebook Community

• Copy of Jessi’s Latest eBook, Smart Goals: Planning a Year of Cool and Easy Success (Upon release Winter 2016).

• Charmed in Business Audio Workshop (My exact 7-Step System that has helped clients increase profitability by as much as 650% and generated 143% in increased business).

• The Friend Dare (My PDF resource itemizing the 10-Day Friend Challenge that helps clients interact with others, excel in social situations and create solid relationships).

• The E-Book Dare (My PDF resource itemizing the 20-Step Roadmap to Write, Publish and Market Your Kindle E-Book).


Each month, we will have a theme.  Beginning in October, the Theme is: Imagining the Possibilities.

Joining by October ensures you won’t be left behind and will be ready to rock by 2017.


If you feel like this is the right opportunity for you, click here, join in the fun, start crushing those goals and moving in a direction you’re proud to share with others.

Talk soon,

RockStar Jessi






How to Connect with Others, Improve Your Relationships, and Make a Good First Impression (4 Videos)

When I left for Europe, I promised to have something very special when I returned.

My gift was doing Life Coaching videos for 30 days.

I took questions and answered them. Here are a few from that series:


5 Ways to “Spread the Love”

Question for you: What do you do to show people love?

I love you with these videos. Thank you for liking, sharing and loving me back! 💛💛💛


Siblings are the greatest key to your past and can be your best friends.

Today, them know how much you care about them.


How do you connect with others?

We are not here to live lives of solitude, we are here to connect.

Question for you: When was the last time you made a new friend or acquaintance?


How Do You Make a Good First Impression?

Introducing Your Best Self…Always

Question for you: What are 3 things most people wouldn’t know about you?





3 Tips to Overcome Codependency


The month of January is Codependecy Awareness Month.

Have you ever known anyone who enabled the addiction, mental health, irresponsibility, behavior or underachievement of another?

While I was in law enforcement, I saw this a lot. Perhaps the most difficult time I witnessed this behavior was in regard to a sex offender caseload. For the life of me, I never understood the mindset of women who did not protect their children from perpetrators.  I remember receiving letters on more than one occasion, wherein they chastised me for splitting family members apart. I remember thinking – ‘Shouldn’t you be thanking me for protecting your child?’

Then it dawned on me and I solved the riddle. These mothers loved their kids, but they had a fear of rejection. What if they could overcome this internal dilemma? I researched ways to help and worked with the families to ensure a better environment for everyone involved.

In honor of Codependecy Awareness Month, I wanted to provide 3 Tips to overcome destructive behaviors in relationships.

1. Education. Read and grow knowledgeable on the subject matter.

2. Learn to say, “No.” Practice utilizing healthy boundaries when asked to do things that are not healthiest for you.

3. Work with a Therapist or Coach.  This could involve working with groups or an individual.  When I work with clients in this area, the most important thing I try to get across is this:  Don’t let your fear of rejection stop you from achieving loving, healthy, wonderful relationships in each area of life.

Take control.





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